When you arrive in a new country, one of the biggest questions is – how to feel at home?
In Latvia, where people are often described as quiet and reserved, this process may seem slower. But it also has a beautiful side: a genuine, unobtrusive sense of belonging that grows slowly but steadily.

In this post, we share a few local customs and observations that might help you understand how Latvia “thinks” and help you feel a bit more like you belong – even if you’ve only just arrived.

• Silence is not coldness – it’s respect

Latvians are often described as reserved, but in reality, they simply don’t speak unless there’s something to say. This applies to conversations on public transport and in queues at the store. In Latvia, silence is not awkward – it’s completely normal.
What does this mean for you? You’re not being ignored – you’re being accepted as you are. And when you start speaking, people will listen.

• Your home – your rules

Latvians value privacy and a tidy environment – whether it’s their apartment, the courtyard, or the forest. Don’t show up at someone’s home unannounced, take off your shoes at the door, and don’t forget to say “thank you” for the invitation.
What does this mean for you? By respecting these small but important norms, you’re showing respect – and that is always appreciated.

• Caring in silence – helping without big words

Latvians often help without saying “I’ll help.” It might be a neighbor quietly shoveling snow on your side too, or a colleague explaining the system without many words – these actions often speak louder than words.
What does this mean for you? Respond in kind – with attentiveness, not grand gestures. Mutual trust is built through respectful attitudes.

• Seasonal traditions – a chance to come together

Latvians live in close rhythm with nature. Midsummer (Līgo and Jāņi), Miķeļi (autumn equinox), Winter Solstice, spring cleaning and community work – these are times when family, friends, and sometimes even strangers gather together.
What does this mean for you? If you’re invited to a celebration or community clean-up – go! Even if you’re not sure what to expect. It’s a way to become part of the circle.

• Language as a bridge, not a barrier

No one expects you to learn Latvian overnight. But the fact that you’re trying is deeply appreciated. Even a simple “Sveiki!” or “Paldies!” brings a warm reaction.
What does this mean for you? Small steps – a sticker on the fridge, a phrase at the market, a chat at a language club – help you not only communicate but also connect.

In conclusion: Slow and steady wins the race
Being “one of us” in Latvia is not about nationality. It’s about honesty, respect for the environment and people, giving space, and listening. Over time, this bears fruit – in conversations, attitudes, and everyday moments. Latvians say: “If you go slower, you’ll get further / Lēnāk brauksi, tālāk tiksi.”  That applies to belonging, too. And you’re already on your way.

Services of the Integration and Inclusion Agency are provided by the Society Integration Foundation within the framework of the Asylum, Migration and Integration Fund’s project (Agreement No. PMIF/13.1./2022/1/01). The funding has been allocated by the Asylum, Migration and Integration Fund (75%) and Latvian State budget (25%).